Nobody is winning because they’re perfect. They’re winning because they have consistently taken action, they have remained focused, and they got lucky.
Stop worrying about having all your ducks in a row, “getting your life together,” or whatever else it is.
Move on the direction you want to move in. Take action.
For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be. So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
Romans 8:6-8 KJV
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. -Eleanor Roosevelt
Start by firmly and swiftly booting the person out of your head. We can’t control how people act, but we have 100 percent control over how we react to them.